The Journey of learning a new healthy lifestyle has been a beautiful one for me.  There have been many breakthroughs of mental brick walls that have been keeping me from getting on the road to health for many years.  I finally am gaining an understanding of what a healthy perspective towards food looks like.  I'd like to share one walls I'm currently knocking down:

For years I honestly didn't know how people could turn down seconds when it came to dessert. I have friends and family who are able to do so and I've watched them carefully and observed that it wasn't a painful decision, or one that was done because of social pressure, it was just because they "weren't hungry", or they
"just ate".  I am just now understanding that they were able to say no to food because they knew how to listen to their body.  What a wonderful skill to acquire!; one that children are born with but often lose somewhere along the winding road of life. 

I am working hard to relearn this skill of listening to my body, and to help my children not lose this skill!  Learning to listen to my body requires desire to change, and a love of self. 

The desire to change is necessary if the skill has been lost because you can't learn something new if you're not ready to let go of old habits.

Yagottawanna :)

The love of self is a necessary key.  Think about it:  You're full and contemplating eating more, if you love the food more than you love yourself, you are going to choose food, despite the consequences of overeating. It requires a desire to take care of your body and not cause pain and discomfort to self to turn down the food. I guess this could work the other way around too if you struggle with allowing yourself to eat food when you're hungry (anorexia), but I've personally never had a problem with that : D

The guidelines that my personal trainer is teaching me are directions needed to get back on the right road toward healthy living.  Sometimes it's hard to follow because I've been off the beaten path for too long, but the closer I get, the easier it becomes because I can finally see the road I've been trying to reach. I understand why people choose to go on this road of healthy living and know it's worth it because the journey just keeps getting better!



"Everyday is a winding road,,,I get a little bit closer"

End of the Month Report:

Well, here we are at the end of July, it seems like just yesterday I was watching the 4th of July fireworks. There were plenty of BBQ's, family get-togethers, and festivities.  I knew that this month would be tricky as I just figured out how to eat healthy on my own, and taking on the social scene would be challenging.  Here are some things I learned:

1. You don't have to overeat just because there's lots of food.  Basic concept, makes sense, but for some reason in the past if I saw a huge pot luck I have felt a duty to taste everything and come back for seconds for the meal and get a plate full of desserts.  So now I've learned to grab a protein, a carb, and a bunch of vegetables and call it good. (Maybe a sliver of dessert:) 
2. Put the emphasis of the get-together on the people not the food! If I'm more interested in catching up with friends and family, I can't be stuck behind a plate of food.  The purpose of gatherings are to build relationships with people, NOT FOOD! (it is okay to enjoy your food though:) but also enjoy stimulating conversation because you aren't too busy stuffing your face!
3. People really are OK if you don't eat 5 desserts.  For some reason in the past I felt a duty to taste everything, so that I could tell everyone how much I liked their treats.  But I didn't this month, and nobody got in my face and demanded that I eat what they made, or made me feel bad for not trying what they made. Isn't it funny how your head can get wrapped around an idea and you can go years without challenging the validity of the concept?  
4. It is wonderful to leave a get-together and not feel gorged; just refreshed because you had time to catch up with friends and family. I enjoy not feeling guilty for eating too much.  Just don't eat too much and the guilt goes away. It's not easy when you've got a habit of overeating at get-togethers, but definitely worth trying out.

So I really want to hear from YOU to see how this month went.  Like I said, it was a tricky month and many of you are just starting, so don't be hard on yourself if it didn't go perfectly.  I would like to hear what you did try, and how it went. I would also like to hear what's challenging you, putting it into words makes it recognizable so you can make a plan of attack. 
Let's set some goals for next month and work on them together!  If you prefer to keep your comments with just me then shoot me an email, otherwise post your comments below on this blog. Perhaps your observations will help others!

just a thought....

I've been sick for 16 days, and I've got several weeks to go.  I spent the evening on the porch swing. Grateful for the opportunity to heal, but longing to go on a walk, or jog, or do a strengthening workout. 
(Those Access "candy" bars keep calling my name:)
I reflected on how thankful I was for the time I did get to spend improving my health before I got sick.

I just wanted to plant a seed in the mind of my readers tonight:

As busy as life is, and as many directions we get pulled, consider not neglecting your health. You owe it to yourself and those who depend on you and love you to take care of yourself. 

When you do take care of yourself, you send a message to yourself and those you love that you want to be the best person you can be. You also demonstrate to God the gratitude you feel for the body He gave you.

Every day is a new day, a new opportunity. There is time to eat healthy, and exercise, just make it a priority.  It's something you won't regret. 

And while you're at it, do an extra exercise count for me!

Open the Bag!

Well, I've been recovering from my illness up at my mom's house. I took it upon myself to be my mom and sister's live-in personal healthy lifestyle coach.  (Even though they say they are excited about that, I'm not sure how long the excitement will last :o)
Sooo, I'm sure you can imagine my shock and horror when I looked into their cupboard and saw the Attain Shakes had NOT BEEN OPENED YET, and had sat there for a SOLID MONTH!!!!
My mom said they didn't want to open them until they were 100% committed to eating healthy.
Uh, okay, I've got a problem with that!
Now let's be honest now friends, how many of you are just like my mom? Worried about taking that first step because it represents a committment you're not sure you can keep yet?
Here, let me figuratively hold your hand for a minute and tell you it's OKAY.  It's okay to not be perfect on the first day you decide to make some positive changes in your life.  Consider that making the positive changes in your life are like pushing a big boulder down the top of a steep mountain.  The first pushes are going to take some effort, and some of your pushing is going to feel futile and non-effective, but as the boulder starts to build momentum it gets a lot easier, and soon it starts to roll on it's own.  If your goal was to get that boulder rolling, the only way to get it started was to start pushing, even though those pushes were not 100% perfect. 
Don't beat yourself up if you don't eat every meal perfectly balanced and portioned. Don't stop trying to learn  how to develop lean muscle just because you didn't figure out how to breathe perfectly on the first day, (that can be quite confusing, but soon enough it becomes second nature).
DO take those first steps. Use the tools that make taking those first steps easier, like wedging the boulders with levers to unearth it, the Attain Bars and Shakes and Access Bars and Shakes are tools to make those first pushes and steps more effective. 
Now seriously if you have not opened your bags or boxes yet, please call me, I'll help you take that first step,,,OPEN THE BAG!

New Healthy Lifestyle Contest Daily Checklist

Healthy Lifestyle Contest Daily Checklist - Notepad


Here is a help to get you started as you learn new habits.  Setting a goal to achieve a healthier lifestyle is a worthy endeavor and one that can be reached by taking SMALL daily steps.  This checklist is a way to document the journey and help keep track of progress.
Print off this Checklist and keep it in a handy place, for me it would be hanging it on the fridge.  Print 2 copies per week and report back to me, if competition helps you stay on task, otherwise keep your own progress and see how daily decisions make a big differences in your life!

Come join me in the fun!

Well, before I dive in, I'd like explain where I've been.  You heard I had the flu, well, it ended up being West Nile Virus, and I got it bad.  It's gonna be a couple weeks at least to recover, and then some.  I'm just grateful to say I'm going to recover!!! Life changes on a dime, doesn't it :o)

So, I'd love to invite anyone intersted in sharing some thoughts about healthy lifestyle living to write up a paragraph or two and shoot me an email.  I find that the best ideas are those conversations you have in your head, or that you've shared with a friends, or family; just jot it down and share with us!  I'll put you as a guest poster for the day, and I've got some prizes for those willing to take the time to do this!

I really have enjoyed doing this blog and would hate to see the momentum die off when there is such great potential, I hope you feel the same and will share with me what's on your mind,,, it might end up as a post! 

Learn the ropes before the tough days come!

When I started working with Georgia the timing was just right for me, I didn't have anything major going on, no major crisis sapping my time and energy, and my health was fair.  It was the perfect time for me to put some effort into learning how to pair carbs and proteins, how to find the correct balance for my calorie needs, how to eye portions,  and discover new foods that provide the nutrients I need. I took advantage of that time and put the effort into learning the system and I'm so glad I did, because you never know what life is going to throw you, and when. 
For example today: I came down with the flu yesterday.  You know, the please somebody shoot me cause I know death would feel so much better than this flu. The chills, the sweats, and the insane headache and body aches. (okay,,, enough complaining,,,you get the picture:oP )
Well, I've been able to stay on target with my nutrition, even though exercise is out of the question.  I know there is no way I could have done that 10 weeks ago when I was just learning the ropes. 
But this is my point to all my friends who have joined me in this journey:  IT GETS EASIER! It becomes natural and just part of your life, and it's worth the effort.  Don't give up!  And don't be afraid to ask questions.  Many times I texted Georgia for random questions as I was figuring things out, and you are more than welcome to do the same for me,,,not that I'm an expert, but I've got a few on my team:o)
If you're are in the thick of life you can still do this, just focus on learning like 1 thing a week, and take it easy on yourself it's better to go slow than not to change at all!
If this post doesn't seem to flow as well as the others please take it with a grain of salt....like I said...I've got the flu ;o)